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Sari Botton's avatar

"I will agree to whatever plans are made with whomever as long as I’m free with no thought to how it will make me feel." 🎯 🎯 🎯

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Mary H.K. Choi's avatar

Hiiiiiiiiii does your brain do anything like this? Did you quit all funbligations when you quit the city? Tell me your secrets 🎀

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Sari Botton's avatar

OMG, does my brain do this! Every morning I look at my calendar, cringing, to see what I agreed to that I'd rather not do. But it's less about funbligations (not enough of those in these parts, honestly!) and more about defaulting to "yes" as an anxious pleaser.

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Mary H.K. Choi's avatar

It’s so Selena Gomez cry smol smile face

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Sari Botton's avatar

🥹

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Claire Ahn's avatar

Funbligations is the word my soul needed to know whenever i desperately tried to explain to my people that work events at night is *not for fun* and please stop telling me I love being out & social at night. I do not. !!!

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